Growing up, I had to develop a system in order to overcome my disability, which forced me to trust myself since other people's advice would start to lead me in a direction that was beneficial to them, not me. (Watching Oprah in the late ‘80s - ‘90s had much to do with me learning to trust myself.)
In your own system, you can gain leverage with your actions, without judgement from others, which allows yourself to see how prior actions strengthen and build your future actions. This illuminates your path.
However, these actions do not translate into words for others' "systems" since it requires mindfulness, which makes outsiders think that my system is "unique" to me and cannot be learned from.
Mindfulness requires visual attention and remembering for yourself the details and how they maintain or advance your own system. With this visual attention, which you live according to, means that logic applies to word sequences. However, the disconnected energy that is associated with illogical words sequences does not resonate within yourself. (I do not know how to respond except for leaving them alone, which leaves me to my happy solitude.)
Since people not motivated by their own self developed systems do not ask, "How am I going to make this work?" or "How is this going to happen?", the disconnected energy is what motivates them since logic does not apply, which feels good to them. This creates an energy “womb”. In the energy womb, people feed off other people's energy. The path forward for them involves being told what to do since they believe in a hierarchy.
Requiring reliance on your mind's eye, logic applies to outside of the energy womb, thus becoming a visual "womb".
The visual "womb" sustains itself on your inner voice, instincts, and mind's eye, which allows for the development of inlays of visual paths. Listening to your inner voice, then vocalizing it and adhering to your vocalizations in front of others is how you stand your ground and “let the chips fall where they may”. The echoes of a self sustaining visual "womb" are immeasurable natural “can do (for myself)” happiness. You discover for yourself there is no hierarchy.
If you feel, but reject several times at first, a start of a path that comes back strong in your own silence, then trust yourself to explore that path. The path may be mysterious at first but the more you explore it the more natural it feels and the more visible it becomes.


(I cannot extricate my understanding of inlays of visual paths from watching TimeCop 2: The Berlin Decision on SciFi (now, SyFy) channel in 2003 or 2004. It is maddeningly not streaming anywhere.)
Even though this is too contrasting for this post, please click here for my path version that I created using Gimp's paintbrush in the Dark Theme.